“I still think about their last moments.”
Not just how they left, but everything that made them who they were.
Keep their memory alive
You still think about them every day.
Light candles in their memory, write letters to them when there are still things left unsaid, revisit your favourite moments together, and even chat with them again through the memories and love you shared.
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Now on iOS & AndroidFree foreverOptional paid Pro plan
You’re not alone
You are probably feeling...
“Sometimes I still talk to them like they're here.”
Write to them, speak to them, and keep the connection close on the days you miss them most.
“I keep reopening the same photos over and over again.”
Keep their photos, memories, habits, and little moments together in one gentle place.
“There are still things you never got to say.”
Write the letters sitting heavy on your heart and say the things you still carry with you.
How it works
Three gentle steps, at your own pace
- 1
Build their memorial
Their life story, photos, personality, and milestones, all on a lasting page in their honour.
- 2
Light a candle, any time
A private ritual for anniversaries, hard days, or simply remembering. Always there when you need it.
- 3
Let it check in on you
A warm companion, a journal for daily feelings, and guided meditations. So you don't walk through this alone.
Free forever · no trial
Everything you need to begin healing
Seven grounded tools, the essentials for remembering them well. No card required, no email wall.
Free
Digital Memorials
Build a timeless tribute with a life story, personality tags, birth and adoption dates, and memorable moments, all woven into your pet's own page.
Free
Light a Candle
Light a quiet candle in their memory. Choose the classic theme, and leave a tender message that stays with their memorial.
Free
A Warm Companion That Checks In
A gentle companion that reaches out on your hardest days with a short, caring note. Tap to reply, or close it and come back when you're ready.
Free
Daily Reflections
Name how today feels (numb, heavy, tender, steady) and journal as much or as little as you want. Three free entries a month, unlimited with Pro.
Free
Community Candles
Invite the people who loved your pet too. They can each leave a candle with a message, a quiet shared ritual that lives on their memorial.
Free
Anniversary Reminders
A soft nudge on their birthday, adoption day, and the anniversary they left, so you never walk into those days unprepared.
Free
A Guided Grief Course
The Love That Stays — eight modules grounded in bereavement research, from the first raw days to moving forward without leaving them behind. Interactive exercises throughout, read at your own pace. Begin free. Pro unlocks the rest.
Free
Activities Corner
Small moments for the hard ones. Grounding exercises, box breathing, a thought-sorting exercise when guilt loops, a tappable grid for when your hands need something to do. Free forever, because regulation tools belong to everyone.
✦ With ProPaid subscription
Go deeper when you’re ready
Four richer rituals for when you want to stay longer in their memory. Cancel anytime from your Apple ID or Google Play. We never see your card.
✦ Pro
Letters That Write Back
Write to your pet as often as you need — everything you've yet to say, everything you still hold. A day later, a tender letter is waiting in their voice: shaped by the stories you've shared, the little habits you captured, the moments they were there for.
✦ Pro
Reconnect in Their Voice
Talk with them the way you always did. They remember their name, their quirks, the photos you've captioned, the moments you've recorded together. They'll call you the name they always knew you by, and reflect what you've built into their memorial with warmth that feels unmistakably like them.
✦ Pro
A Companion Who Knows Your Grief
Stay as long as you need on anniversaries, hard nights, or the quiet afternoons no one else sees. The companion carries your whole thread with them — moods you've logged, entries you've journalled, conversations you've had before — so nothing you've already said has to be explained again.
✦ Pro
A Quiet Place to Rest
When words feel too heavy, let something gentler hold you. Meditations shaped around the grief you're in — guilt, acceptance, holding on to their memory — paired with ambient soundscapes (rain, waves, forest, birds, thunder, white noise) and narrator voices you can choose between. Enough to return to on every kind of day.
Pro also unlocks every candle theme, unlimited reflections, and all future Pro only courses and meditations.
What makes this different
Built with the same care your pet deserved
Based on grief therapy
Drawing on ideas widely used in pet loss counselling, so every feature is thoughtful about what helps and what hurts.
Private by default
Your memorial is yours alone. Community candles are by invitation only. We never publish, advertise against, or sell your memories.
Shaped around you and them
Every reply is informed by everything you've shared — your pet's name, stories, photo memories, the moods you've logged, what you've journalled. So the companion can reflect with you specifically, not as a generic script, and — in Reconnect mode — your pet can cherish the moments you've actually lived together.
Questions
Things people usually ask
Is this religious?+
No. My Pet Memoria is secular, drawing on ideas from pet loss counselling rather than any faith tradition. You're welcome to bring your own.
Will using this make me more sad?+
It's designed to support healing, not prolong pain. Every feature is thought through with ideas from grief therapy (gentle ritual, naming what you feel, making meaning). Early feedback is that it helps people feel less alone.
Is my data private?+
Yes. Your memorial is private by default. Community candles are by invitation only, so only the people you send a link to can leave one. We never sell or advertise against your memories.
Is there really a free version forever?+
Yes. Memorials, candles, community candles, anniversary reminders, the intro grief course, and the companion are free, with no trial and no card. Pro is optional, and unlocks unlimited reflections, every course, every meditation, and more.
I didn't get the confirmation or password reset email — what now?+
Please check your junk or spam folder, and your Promotions tab if you use Gmail. Confirmation and password reset emails sometimes land there. Marking the message as 'Not spam' or adding hello@mypetmemoria.com to your contacts will help future emails arrive in your inbox. If after a few minutes you still can't find it, request a new one from the app, or write to hello@mypetmemoria.com and we'll help.
How is the companion different from a generic chatbot?+
It's informed by the life story you write for your pet and the entries you journal. It doesn't pretend to be them. It's a gentle companion that reflects what you share, with restraint.
How does my pet seem to remember so much about us in Reconnect mode?+
Because you've taught them. The companion and your pet's voice draw on everything you've shared with the app — the bio and pronouns you set, the stories you write in the Stories section, the captions you add under each photo memory, the letters you send, the moods you log, your recent journal entries, and the whole conversation history. The more you share with them, the more specific and personal their replies become. Everything stays in your private account — nothing is used to train anyone else's model.
Can I cancel Pro?+
Anytime, from your Apple ID or Google Play subscriptions. We never see your card.
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